Thursday, March 13, 2014

If It Looks Like Rome. . .

From blogger A Daughter of the Reformation:

"I’m not sure why so many Catholic practices are finding their way into Reformed Presbyterian churches. It seems to me that these things have the “feel” of worship, and maybe that is the attraction. Maybe there is boredom or discontent with our own traditions. Maybe there is a desire to “do church” differently. Whatever the reason, maybe we should stop and reconsider. All of these things are part of a religious tradition that our spiritual ancestors broke away from."

Read her complete blog post discussing the trends here.

Friday, March 07, 2014

Cheap Grace

"Cheap grace means grace as a doctrine, a principle, a system. It means forgiveness of sins proclaimed as a general truth, the love of God taught as the Christian 'conception' of God.  An intellectual assent to that idea is held to be of itself sufficient to secure remission of sins. . .no contrition is required, still less any real desire to be delivered from sin.  Cheap grace therefore amounts to a denial of the living Word of God, in fact, a denial of the Incarnation of the Word of God.  Cheap grace means the justification of sin without the justification of the sinner.  Grace alone does everything, they say, and so everything can remain as it was before."

"Cheap grace is grace without discipleship, grace without the cross, grace without Jesus Christ, living and incarnate."  

~quote from Dietrich Bonhoeffer, The Cost of Discipleship

Lord, forgive us for those times when we love our sin more than we love and value you and our redemption purchased with the blood of Christ.  

Thursday, February 20, 2014

Homemade Vanilla Extract

A couple years ago, we received homemade vanilla extract as a Christmas gift, and I discovered how amazingly simple it is!  The only items needed are vanilla beans, vodka, bottles with caps or corks, and time. I ordered Madagascar vanilla beans online (getting a better price on a larger quantity of beans).

With a sharp knife, I cut a long slit the length of each bean, leaving about 1/4" at each end, and placed the beans in washed bottles (using 3 to 4 beans per 8 ounces of vodka).  I poured the vodka into the bottles, completely covering the beans. After placing the cork in the bottles, I placed them in a cool, dark location.  The vanilla should be ready to use in about eight weeks, but additional time will provide a more intense vanilla flavor.  

After I add pretty labels, the homemade vanilla will be ready to be given as gifts to friends and family. 

Sunday, February 09, 2014

Quotable Thomas Watson

"The devil blows the coals of passion and discontent, and then warms himself by the fire.  Oh, let us not nourish this angry viper in our breast."

Friday, February 07, 2014

Idols of the Heart

 "The human heart is an idol factory...Every one of us from our mothers womb is an expert in inventing idols"  ~ John Calvin

I recently heard one of my favorite Bible teachers say that if you're wondering what your idols are, just reflect on what you usually think about as soon as you wake up in the morning and right before you fall asleep at night. Those are the times when we are alone with our thoughts. We are free to dwell on matters of our own choosing, so naturally our thoughts will drift to those things which are important to us, or maybe even control us.

Scripture has much to say about the practice of idolatry, and, although Christians don't worship graven images of other "gods," we certainly are prone to create attachments to things in the world that replace the affections for our Heavenly Father. I John 5:21 states "Little children, keep yourselves from idols."  The Lord desires, even commands, that we love him above all else and look to him to as a child would to an earthly parent. He alone can satisfy the deepest longings of our hearts. I believe that is why we should start and end our days reflecting on the Lord and his goodness.

When the alarm clock sounds, my tendency is to race through my mental list of people to see, places to go, and things to do. But Psalm 5:3 says, "My voice You shall hear in the morning, O Lord; In the morning I will direct it to You, and I will look up."  I love this verse. It's a reminder to start my day by thanking him for his faithfulness that is new every morning. I also pray that, by "looking up," I will remember that each moment and situation of the day will pass through his sovereign hands. The Lord is working all things together for my good and his glory. It's my desire to faithfully walk through the day in a manner worthy of his love for me.

Likewise, when we I put my head on the pillow, my impulse is to mull over the day's pleasures, accomplishments, irritations, failures, disappointments, etc. It's not necessarily wrong to do so, but I know I have a loving Heavenly Father who is always waiting for me to bring those cares before his throne of grace. I am faced with either trusting in my own wisdom and strength, a form of idolatry, or obediently casting all my burdens on him, and thanking him for. . .well, everything!  What a blessing it is to drift off to sleep after a time of worshipping my Lord.

"Meditate within your heart on your bed, and be still. Offer the sacrifices of righteousness, and put your trust in the Lord." Psalm 4:4b-5

Friday, January 31, 2014

Quotable John Calvin

The cross makes for discipline:

"That we may not become haughty when we acquire wealth; that we may not become proud when we receive honors; that we may not become insolent when we are blessed with prosperity and health, the Lord himself, as he deems fit, uses the cross to oppose, restrain, and subdue the arrogance of our flesh.

And he does this by various means which are useful and wholesome for each of us. For we are not all equally afflicted with the same disease or all in need of the same severe cure.  This is the reason why we see different persons disciplined with different crosses.  The heavenly Physician takes care of the well-being of all his patients; he gives some a milder medicine and purifies others by more shocking treatments, but he omits no one; for the whole world, without exceptions, is ill (Deut. 32:15)."  

Thursday, January 30, 2014

Refrigerator Ever-Ready Rolls

A friend who is a caterer gave me this wonderful roll dough recipe. I prefer the flavor and texture of these rolls over a traditional bread dough for making bierrocks, cheeseburger or breakfast pockets. Very yummy!

Refrigerator Ever-Ready Rolls

1 T. rapid rise yeast
1 cup warm water - 110 to 115 degrees
2 tsp. sugar

Dissolve first three ingredients and set aside.

2 cups very warm water
1 1/4 tsp. salt

3/4 cup sugar
3/4 cup oil
2 eggs, beaten
8 cups flour

Add the remaining ingredients to the first three and mix by hand or with mixer for approximately 8 to 10 minutes. Turn out into a greased bowl and allow to double in size. Punch down and either make your rolls or refrigerate dough for up to two weeks and use as desired.  

Bake at 400 degrees for 10 - 12 minutes.

Friday, January 24, 2014


"Now perfect and complete glorying in God is this:  not to exult in one's own righteousness, but being aware that one is lacking in true righteousness, to be justified by faith alone in Christ."  

"Much time had I spent in vanity, and had wasted nearly all my youth in the vain labour which I underwent in acquiring the wisdom made foolish by God.  Then once upon a time, like a man roused from deep sleep, I turned my eyes to the marvellous light of the truth of the Gospel, and I perceived the uselessness of 'the wisdom of the princes of this world, that come to naught.'  I wept many tears over my miserable life and I prayed that guidance might be vouchsafed me to admit me to the doctrines of true religion."

~ Basil of Caesarea 

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

And Such Were Some of You

"Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God."  I Corinthians 6:9-11

The early church at Corinth was a mess. Instead of growing in Christ and in unity of the faith, the congregation fell into many sinful and prideful practices.  The Apostle Paul penned a letter to the church, giving them a spiritual smack-down, calling them back to sound doctrine and Christian love and unity.  Paul didn't doubt that the congregation was comprised of true believers, having been justified by grace through faith in Christ alone. He was, however, rightly concerned about their lives of cheap grace, evidenced by their disregard for walking in a manner worthy of their calling to Jesus.  So he calls them out on their sins. It's hard not to read the list above and receive my own spiritual smack-down in several areas, but then Paul writes these beautiful words of encouragement:

"And such were some of you."

Paul reminds Christians that we have been washed of all our filthiness, we have been declared holy, our relationship with God has been made right, all because of the righteousness of Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit, the "bookends of the Christian life," as Jerry Bridges refers to them. We will continue to battle temptations to sin, they are literally all around and in us, but as we remind ourselves of the gospel, that we were bought with a price, that we are no longer our own possession (I Corinthian 6:20), we will yield to the power of the Holy Spirit to do his perfecting work in our lives for his glory.    

We simply can't go back to a life of cheap grace, if we truly understand the gospel.  

Friday, January 17, 2014


"God is so far from being pleased either with those who are ambitious of popular praise, or with hearts full of pride and presumption, that he plainly tells 'they have their reward' in this world, and that (repentant) harlots and publicans are nearer to the kingdom of heaven than such persons.  

There is no end and no limit to the obstacles of the man who wants to pursue what is right and at the same time shrinks back from self-denial. It is an ancient and true observation that there is a world of vices hidden in the soul of man, but Christian self-denial is the remedy for them all. There is deliverance in store only for the man who gives up his selfishness, and whose sole aim is to please the Lord and to do what is right in his sight." ~ John Calvin 

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

The Stack

It seems as though every new January comes with a new intentionality. I reflect
on ways that I can prioritize different areas of my life, and one of those areas is reading. Last week I went to our bookshelves and pulled this stack of books that I intend to read during the next twelve months. However, being a woman, I reserve the right to change my mind. Since I already have a new book on order, that is a real likelihood. And if you'll look closely, you will notice several of the books have bookmarks protruding, indicating that my prior intentionality didn't quite pan out. That's why I avoid the word resolution.  ;)

Here's the line-up:

Fiction selections:

Strong Poison by Dorothy Sayers, one of her Lord Peter Wimsey murder mysteries. Why? Ashlea recently named her new kitty after Sayers' mystery sleuth, title and all. Weird reason, maybe, but perhaps not any more unusual than naming a cat after a fictional detective. Unusualness seems to run in the family.  

The Code of the Woosters by P. G. Wodehouse.  I have never read anything by Wodehouse, so it's about time!

1984 by George Orwell.  Why?  I'm making up for my poor high school education.  I graduated in the '70s. . .need I say more?   

The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky. Getting through this classic has become a life goal, and this will be my third attempt. I am determined to make the third time the "charm." Better start on this one soon!

Joel and I are also reading through the Lord of the Rings trilogy together; it's probably the only way I would make it through those books.

Theology/Christian selections:  

Love in Hard Places by D. A. Carson. Admittedly, I need some encouragement when it comes to loving and forgiving those who have hurt or disappointed me.

The Cost of Discipleship by Dietrich Bonhoeffer. After reading the excellent biography of Bonhoeffer by Eric Metaxas, I want to meditate more on the difference between "cheap grace" and "costly grace" from the writings of one who lived the latter.  

Pillars of Grace:  A Long Line of Godly Men (A.D. 100 - 1564) by Steven Lawson - a survey of church history. I've often heard the names, so it's time I read about the church fathers who held fast to the doctrines of grace through the centuries.

What Jesus Demands from the World by John Piper - my book club read for this year. Piper reflects on fifty of the commands of Christ in connection with his person and work.  

Other selections:

Undaunted Courage by Stephen Ambrose - the adventures of Lewis and Clark and the opening of the American West. Historical reads are always fascinating to me.  

The Road to Serfdom by F. A. Hayek.  My political/economic fix for the year, and a timely look at the relation between individual liberty and government control. I hope I have the brain power to process this one.  

The Consequences of Ideas by R. C. Sproul.  An overview of the concepts that have shaped our world - my dabble in philosophy.  

Tesla, Margaret Cheney's look at one of the twentieth centuries' greatest scientists and inventors.  Now I'm wondering why I selected this book since I'm not science-oriented, other than it's a biography. . .oh, and Tesla was a character in one of my favorite movies, The Prestige. ;)

And last but by no means least, Down the Garden Path by Beverley Nichols.  I'm continually grateful to my friend Roxie for introducing me to the works of this delightful author. I read several of his books last year as he recounted the refurbishing of his English manor Merry Hall and its gardens. And I am currently working through one of his books on cats.  It's truly a shame that Nichols' prolific writings have fallen off the reading landscape. I'm sure I'll being adding more Nichols' books to the list.

Reading Regret:  I read all of Erik Larson's (link) books over the course of the last year or so, and how I wish there was one to add to this year's list!  His book In the Garden of Beasts: Love, Terror, and an American Family in Hitler's Berlin is being made into a movie and will be released sometime this year; though I already know it won't measure up to the book.  

Tuesday, January 07, 2014

God's Great Love and Our Great Misery

"So great was our misery, that no less remedy would suffice, and so great
God's mercy that He withheld Him [Jesus] not
from us." ~ Puritan Thomas Manton

John 3:16: For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life (ESV), the one verse that we all know so well and, therefore, too often gloss over the profound truths contained within. It really is astonishing that God would love the world. Consider how often we, as sinful creatures, are disgusted and repulsed by the vileness and depravity of mankind that comes across our news media or is within our limited social sphere.  Then consider that our Holy God, who knows no sin, has witnessed every sin in thought, word, and deed of every human since time began. Truly the misery of the world is beyond our comprehension. 

And yet God loved the world.

He saw us in all our misery and was willing to provide the only remedy for our sinful condition - his Son.  God's love was so great that he not only would not withhold his Son, he could not withhold his Son. It was a promise of love the Godhead made before time began, and Jesus was the only one who would and could bear the load.

How should meditating on this marvelous love of God change me? It is my prayer that this year I will truly value what Christ has done in my life, that he will become more precious to me than anything this world has to offer, that I will more readily yield to the sanctifying work of the Holy Spirit, and that I will more faithfully serve him. 

"For the love of Christ controls us, because we have concluded this: that one has died for all, therefore all have died; and he died for all, that those who live might no longer live for themselves but for him who for their sake died and was raised." II Corinthians 5:14-15 ESV

Thursday, November 14, 2013

God's Faithfulness in Our Suffering

As we all know, it's not a question of if we'll face pain and suffering, but when.  It's inevitable in this fallen world.  Sometimes we see suffering coming, and other times it seemingly strikes out of nowhere.  Regardless, for those of us who know Christ as our Savior, we have the assurance that Providence is at work through the tough times.  Not only does God allow the pain and suffering, but he indeed orders our days, the good and the bad, to accomplish his sanctifying purpose in our lives, to his honor and glory.  

Alistair Begg, in his Truth for Life "My Times are in Your Hands" broadcast, explained the follow ten points that should be included in our theology of suffering:

1.  God chooses to use suffering to develop perseverance.  James 1:2-3 - "My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trails, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience."

2.  God uses suffering to manifest his faithfulness to bring us to maturity in Christ. James 1:4 - "But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing." 

3.  God uses suffering to assure us of our sonship through his loving discipline. Hebrews 12:7;11 - "If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten?. . .Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it."  

4.  God uses suffering to prove the genuine nature of our faith.  I Peter 4:12-13 - "Beloved, do not think it strange concerning the fiery trail which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened to you, but rejoice to the extent that you partake of Christ's sufferings, that when His glory is revealed, you may also be glad with exceeding joy."

5.  God uses suffering to develop in us humility.  2 Corinthians 12:9-10 - "And He said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my strength is made perfect in weakness.'  Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.  Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in needs, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ's sake.  For when I am weak, then I am strong."  

6.  God uses suffering to keep us on track.  Psalm 119:67 - "Before I was afflicted, I went astray, but now I keep your word."  Proverbs 3:1 - "My son, do not forget my law, but let your heart keep my commands." 

7.  God uses suffering to deepen our insight into the heart of God.  Read the story of the prophet Hosea.  

8.  God uses suffering to help others in their trials.  2 Corinthians 1:3-4 -
"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulations, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God."

9.  God uses suffering to reveal to us what we really love and what matters most.  Do we love God more than we love ourselves?  John 12:25-26 - "He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life." 

10.  God uses suffering that we might display God's glory.  Read the story of Joseph in Genesis 37 - 50.  Genesis 50:20 - "But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good." 

Friday, September 20, 2013

Let's Get Specific

If we are followers of Christ, we don't have any problem confessing that we are sinners in need of a Savior. That general confession rolls off our tongues very easily.  It's when we are confronted about a particular sin in our lives, either by the Holy Spirit or someone else, that we choke and often attempt to deny or defend our sin. Why is that? One reason is that while our pride allows us to admit that we are sinners in a general sense (just like everyone else), it doesn't want to admit to particular sins such as gossip, impure thoughts, envy, lust, hatred, jealousy, anger, and so on. We would much rather recite the Lord's Prayer in Matthew 6 ("forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors") than humbly pray along with King David in Psalm 139, "Search me, O God, and know my heart. . .see if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting." God's Word warns us about the danger of not fessing up to our sins, but also promises blessings if we do.  If we don't get specific in dealing with our sins before the Lord, we will have a difficult time turning from them and pursuing righteousness. As we read our Bibles, we should pray that the Holy Spirit will show us our sins, then seek his forgiveness and help with repentance.  

"He who covers his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy."  Proverbs 28:13

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Boys Will Be. . Entrepreneurs!

Aren't these boys just so cute? That's what we first thought when we came across them two weeks ago, but we soon found out that they mean business. . .in a good sense. The brothers conduct a parking business in their front yard on Kansas State football game days, and they do it all:  the advertising and flagging of potential customers, the directing of customers to their parking place, the receiving of payment. . .all done with courtesy and professionalism. In the spirit of competition, their opening price is $1 less than the neighbors (with the ability to lower the price on the sign as needed), and to encourage repeat business, they give their customers a $1 off coupon for another game day.  Their parents are not involved; however, Mason did admit their parents receive a portion of the proceeds, as would any good "landlord."  The Garren brothers won our hearts and our business.  One of these days I hope to meet the parents and tell them just that.  What valuable lessons in business and economics they are teaching their sons at a young age!  

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Triple Chocolate Oatmeal Cookies

This recipe comes from the Windmill Inn, a bed and breakfast in Chapman, Kansas.  I had never seen a cookie recipe like this one, so I had to give it a try.  They are delicious!  As Joel said, "This might give our old favorite cookie recipe some competition!"  I substituted white "chocolate" chips for the milk chocolate chips to give the cookies some variation in color and flavor.  The recipe indicates that the oatmeal may be omitted, making for an "overly rich chocolate cookie that melts in your mouth."  

1 1/4 cup flour
1/2 cup cocoa
1 t. baking soda
1/2 t. salt
1 cup butter, softened
1 cup packed brown sugar
1/2 cup granulated sugar
1 t. vanilla extract
2 eggs
1 cup milk chocolate chips
1 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips (I used dark chocolate chips.)
1 3/4 cup oats, either quick or old-fashioned 

Combine the flour, cocoa, baking soda and salt in a small bowl.  Cream the butter, brown sugar, granulated sugar and vanilla in a large mixer bowl until light and fluffy.  Add the eggs 1 at a time, beating well after each addition. Gradually beat in the cocoa mixture.  Stir in the chocolate chips and oats.  Drop the dough by rounded tablespoons 2 inches apart on ungreased cookie sheets.  Bake at 375 degrees for 10 - 12 minutes or until the edges are set.  Let stand for 2 minutes before removing to a wire rack to cool completely.  

Thursday, August 29, 2013

Football and Being a Good Samaritan

We Kansas State football Wildcat fans are getting pumped for the opening game tomorrow night. . .in spite of the extremely hot temperatures.  The high in Manhattan tomorrow is supposed to be 100 degrees, and we expect that the temperature at the time of kick-off will still be hovering in the low 90s.  It could be brutal, just as it was during last year's season opener.  A family member got so overheated during the game, she thought she was going to pass out.  She made her way to the ladies' restroom to get some water and relief in the air-conditioned room.  Still feeling sick, she ended up lying down on the concrete floor in the restroom until she felt better.  The sad part about this situation was that women came and went, and not one of them offered assistance or inquired about her well-being!  It's natural to respond with indignation at such behavior toward a fellow human being.  Just like the indignation we feel when we read the account of the Good Samaritan found in Luke chapter 10.  But, if we are honest with ourselves, there have been many times in our lives when we've played the part of the priest and the Levite, rather than the Good Samaritan.  

How we demonstrate love toward others reflects our theology.  Jesus, quoting Deuteronomy, taught, "'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the first and great commandment.  And the second is like it: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'" (Matthew 22:37-39)  Only a person who truly loves God with all his heart, mind, soul, and strength is able to love his neighbor as himself.  We can never love the Lord perfectly as required in this commandment, but there is One who has. . .Jesus Christ.  He fulfilled that commandment for us.  If we trust in what Jesus did for us by dying on the cross, we receive forgiveness for our sins and are indwelled by the Holy Spirit. The Spirit works in the lives of Christians so that we reflect the character of Christ, including his selfless love and mercy. As we come in contact with others in need, how do we respond?  Are we too busy to be bothered? Do we believe that it's not our responsibility?  Is a football game more important than caring for a sick "neighbor"?  Or, are we compassionate and show the same mercy we have received?  If we pass by people in need, we are demonstrating a lack of appreciation for love and mercy we have received in Christ.  

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Musings on Marriage

"Different, hard-won, better."  Marriage was described this way by a friend as she and her husband celebrated their sixth anniversary.  I like it.  I like it a lot.  Marital love is "different" than the love couples feel prior to becoming man and wife.  The "masks" worn throughout the courtship eventually come off, and we are exposed for who we really are.  Though we might not like all that we see, the promise to love remains.  By the grace of God, that exposure has the ability to make the marriage "better" over the years, as the Holy Spirit uses our relationship with our husband or wife to sanctify us and mold us into the image of Christ.  As we learn to extend grace, mercy, and forgiveness, the bond between a husband and wife strengthens and the intimacy deepens.  

But between the "different" and the "better" is the "hard-won." Marriage is work; rather, a good marriage is work.  There must be a constant vigilance against complacency.  It's all too easy to fall into a sense of self-centered security and fail to delight in the great gift we have in our spouse. It is not our spouse's responsibility to meet our felt-needs; it is our responsibility to be obedient to Christ by demonstrating sacrificial love and respect.  

There must also be vigilance to guard the commitment made to forsake all others, both physically and emotionally.  Our pastor recently said that he's seen many marriages ruined due to emotional adultery, in which cases the husbands/wives never actually reached the point of physical infidelity. Proper boundaries with the opposite sex were either non-existent or ignored. We should never underestimate the deceitfulness of our own hearts, what might be lurking in the dark crevices of our minds as we interact with other men and women.  Nor should we underestimate the power of the devil to tempt us in areas or times of weakness.

And finally, there must be vigilance to not compromise the biblical standards of living to which we are called as followers of Christ.  What we watch, read, and hear will affect the way we treat others, especially those closest to us.
The Lord, our Maker and designer of marriage, gave us the Bible to lead us in the path of righteousness.  May we be vigilant to be in the Word and prayerfully seek the help of the Holy Spirit, so that we will experience God's best in our marriages.